Years of extensive research has taught me a thing or two about sex and the online dating, and bdsm, kink and swinging, scene. One of them is that many people aren’t being honest about who they are and what they want. Puritanism and other such nonsense aside, I’ve yet to figure out why.
We’re all in it for the sex, right? If “getting some” was as easy as buying a pint of milk, we’d all be hanging out down at Sainsbury’s, comparing prices, deals and quality now. Organic sex, anyone?
Somehow personal relationships are difficult. It’s not that easy to find people you’d like to be personal, let alone private, with. For me, sex is very personal. Great sex even private. My ultimate sexual experience sets me free. It allows me to let go of everything and just be. Puts me in a place where my whole existence lies in the feeling. The experience. And once I’m there, nothing else matters.
I think we all want great sex that sets us free. And I think hiding behind online alter egos, trying to paint pictures of ourselves that are nothing but figments of our imagination, is not the way to get it. Unless all you’re looking for is endless chatting and a slice of cyber sex, of course.
The rest of us, who want more of a hands-on experience, will inevitably have to meet up at some point. When we do, we kinda expect to meet someone who at least vaguely resembles the person we saw in the profiles, and interacted with in messages and chats.
This series of oogles – slices of real life observations, experiences and musings – is my attempt to unleash my personality and let you see more of who I am.
Maybe that way, if we meet up in person, I won’t be a waste of your time.
And, hopefully, you won’t be a waste of mine…
Love and lust,
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Linn Lindström is a Swedish sex kitten whose curiosity once led her to attend a swingers’ party in London. Soon after, she found herself in charge of a number of chat forums, discussion groups and websites dedicated to the promotion of a safe playground for sociable sex larpers.
A diva of delight, Linn can exude a sex appeal that is off the charts. Like Freya, the goddess of love and beauty, she loves to indulge in physical sensations and anything that involves more than two senses. She is a typical Libra and may come across as cool, calm, or even aloof, but once relaxed she is incredibly playful, passionate and romantic. Though she’d never admit the latter!
Linn loves storytelling, music, Life, crafting and chocolate, and she is particularly partial to mental fireworks. She needs a lover who can make her think less and feel more, but only the brave need apply.