IS ORAL SEX MORE PERSONAL?

LINN’s INBOX

Why would some women consider oral sex more personal than penetrative sex? The women in question dont mind the man performing oral sex on them but care to wait a number of months if not at least year to reciprocate the gesture. Is this a common thing?/TS

Hmmm… Is that a thing? I don’t think I’ve met a woman who felt that oral was more personal. I do know a lot of women who aren’t too keen on sucking dick full stop, though. Normally because the man isn’t very good at keeping the area clean, or because he has a habit of forcing it down further than what she’s comfortable with.

Many men seem to think that sex is something they do to women, rather than something we enjoy together. If a man is using his cock like a battering ram, chances are the woman isn’t going to be too keen on forming her own relationship with the little feller. 

Give her a chance to befriend him, however, and she may very well be digging into your trousers just to give him a little squeeze just because she wants to.  

As for whether oral and penetrative sex are different in terms of how personal they feel, i cn only answer for myself. To me they are not different. Both can be as personal or as anonymous as you want them to be.

I love oral sex, but won’t give it to a man who’s not interested in reciprocating. And there are more than a few of those around. Then there’s the matter of taste. If you’re cooking me a meal, I expect you to taste it before you serve it. How else will you know if it’s actually any good? The same applies to your dick and cum. Want someone to take them in their mouth? Better check their tasty before you offer them up. 

Kissing, on the other hand, is very personal and something I cannot do. In fact, its a real turn-off for me to have someone trying to stick their tongue down my throat.

Difficult to explain, but maybe that’s why it’s personal…

Love & Lust

//Linn x

ABOUT LINN

Linn is a Swedish sex kitten whose curiosity led her to attend a sex party on the bdsm, kink and swinging scene in London. Soon after, she found herself in charge of a number of forums, discussion groups and websites dedicated to the promotion of a safe playground for sociable sex larpers.

A diva of delight, Linn can exude a sex appeal that is off the charts. Like Freya, the goddess of love and beauty, she loves to indulge in physical sensations and anything that involves more than two senses. She is a typical Libra and may come across as cool, calm, or even aloof, but once relaxed she is incredibly playful, passionate and romantic. Though she’d never admit the latter!

Linn loves storytelling, music, Life, crafting and chocolate, and she is particularly partial to mental fireworks. She needs a lover who can make her think less and feel more, but only the brave need apply.