Hey, Linn, Do you know anyone who’s actually got a sex buddy? Does it work? And how many sex buddies can one have?/XX
Hey XX. I don’t really like the term fuck buddies. I like to call them friends or fuck larpers, but yes of course they exist and it can work really well. I don’t just know someone who’s had one – I’ve had quite a few of them myself over the years. Once upon a time I had five at the same time!
I guess that relates to the last question you had. Five seemed to be an ideal number for me at that point in time. One of them picked me up every Friday and took me home to his place for lunch. He cooked us something to eat, we shared a bottle of wine or two, and had great sex before he drove me back home.
The other four were pretty much booty calls as they were all busy bees. Sometimes we’d hook up and do something fun together, then have sex for hours on end. Sometimes we’d hook up for a quickie to keep us going until next time. It was a fantastic arrangement as it gave me steaming hot sex on a regular basis with people I really enjoyed spending time with.
Now for the thorny part that often leads to problems in these arrangements. Honesty. They all knew that I neither offered, nor asked for, exclusive rights. I just wanted to have some fun and great sex with a good friend. And I got plenty! But our relationship wasn’t purely based on sex and wanting to get some. We were friends who liked to see each other, and it wan’t always about sex.
I’ve been to dinners, gone on cruises, skill shared, and even had a friend bring me food and keep me company while I was ill. And when I see them, we hug and share a few words.
My set-up crumbled when I added a sixth man to my little bouquet. He knew the score too and accepted it, but after a couple of months he wanted more and I thought that, for him, I’d give this twosomeness thing a go.
Which is why I now spend so much time sitting on here complaining about only getting laid once a month.
There’s a story in there…
Love & Lust
Linn is a Swedish sex kitten whose curiosity led her to attend a sex party on the bdsm, kink and swinging scene in London. Soon after, she found herself in charge of a number of forums, discussion groups and websites dedicated to the promotion of a safe playground for sociable sex larpers.
A diva of delight, Linn can exude a sex appeal that is off the charts. Like Freya, the goddess of love and beauty, she loves to indulge in physical sensations and anything that involves more than two senses. She is a typical Libra and may come across as cool, calm, or even aloof, but once relaxed she is incredibly playful, passionate and romantic. Though she’d never admit the latter!
Linn loves storytelling, music, Life, crafting and chocolate, and she is particularly partial to mental fireworks. She needs a lover who can make her think less and feel more, but only the brave need apply.